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Last Days of this Mama’s FREE SUMMER

Today is Jordy’s last day of what we’re calling “summer camp”! In his SpEd Pre-K, he has (for the last 2 summers) been qualified/chosen to continue the school year in ESY, Extended School Year. Kiddos who’ve been identified as those who are likely to regress academically/developmentally without the structure and learning environment during an entire summer, get to extend the school year for an additional 5 weeks. It’s 4 days a week, 8a-12p and started June 13 and the last day is today.

Jordy has been in district Pre-K starting at age 3 at Canyon Vista Elementary School, due to his needs and an IEP (Individualized Education Plan), which made his preschool absolutely free. The summer “ESY” program is also free. Kiddos have to qualify developmentally to be included in these programs, and he had to go through a series of assessments with the district psychologist and nurse. He receives speech therapy and occupational therapy during school hours, working towards goals to set him up for academic success. The overall goal is to essentially get him in General Ed once he’s in early elementary. Ideally that would be Kindergarten, but we’ll see how he does progressing through this next year of TK. He’s in what’s called STARS TK, which is that lower ratio supportive program on-site at the (different) elementary school, in its own classroom. Speech Therapists and Occupational Therapists come into the classroom and work with these kiddos one-on-one and in little groups, simultaneously working on these kids’ goals from their IEPs.

In Pre-K, his special program was called SEALS (I can never remember what the acronyms mean), and at the elementary age (TK and up) his program is the STARS program. More about what TK is in our school district, here. Because of Universal TK (UTK) legislation becoming active this upcoming fall, they shifted the birthday timeline from turning 5 on or after September 2 through December 2nd, to NOW September 2 through February 2 (quite a jump) which essentially meant Jordy qualified by 3 days before the cutoff. Now with UTK, there are TK programs at every single elementary school in our district. But there are only a couple locations in the district for the STARS TK program. We also moved to Mission Viejo, so our closest STARS TK program shifted. This Fall, his school day is 8a-12p also, and Jia will be 8a-2:30p. At least the same Elementary though.

BACK TO SUMMER: It’ll be a bummer to no longer have the four hours to myself (especially since last summer and this summer, Jia has been with her grandparents during that exact timeframe), which means I have to actually figure out what the kids and I do on my non-work days. Other than playing Mario Kart all day.

You’d think with a private pool, he’d be eager to get all the wiggles out in it every day being that it’s such a great sensory experience for kiddos on the spectrum (jordy loves splashing and jumping off the sides of the pool), but it’s actually kind of hard to convince him to get into it. I think I’ll make it my goal today to get him in the pool. Or at least, maybe I’ll hold off and see if Jia being home will help that. Being that she’s gone into about half a dozen different pools on her road trip…

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Since I’m not at work today…

Restylane-L dermal filler, one of my favorites to use

My regular work schedule is Wednesdays and Fridays at a medical spa in Irvine. I work when there are patients scheduled for me, and today was not that day. I think I had one patient scheduled for a laser scar treatment, but her work schedule has been pretty busy so she rescheduled and that was all who was on my schedule for today. Friday is a big day of training on our new Motus AZ painless laser hair removal, so this week is pretty chill. So I figured I’d make use of my momentum and post again.

I’ve spent so long searching my dashboard to find out how to change the header photo of this blog and I couldn’t figure it out or the server wasn’t responding to allow me to revise. So I changed the theme of the layout so that there wasn’t a header. Oh well, that was my semi-solution for the time being. And as for yesterday’s post, apparently I was creating a bulleted list and I didn’t even realize it until I saw my post today on my phone, and it showed it as bullets. I also noticed that my previous posts cut off after a certain point and it continued on with a click to expand the post. I forgot how to do that. Geez. Guess I’ll have to dive back into my old posts to see what sort of command I used for that. I really really don’t remember jack since the pandemic has eaten away at my brain.

So cosmetics huh?

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What We’ve Been Doing in the Last…. 6 years??!!!?

Literally don’t even know if I’m writing or posting this correctly because it has legit been 6 years since I have logged in. Thank goodness for those Apple passwords and the iPassword app for remembering how to log me in to my hosting site because I wouldn’t have been able to figure out how to even log in to my hosting email… (I still don’t).

So it’s been almost 6.5 years since I’ve last posted here. What brought this on? Well, last year, around April 2021, my public health bestie Darren pointed out to me that the blog wasn’t loading. He’d been referencing the teething posts and a couple others, since he’d been seeking out answers for baby Hayden.. maybe the introducing solid foods infant feeding posts (?) and he realized that one day the page was drawing a blank. I’d assumed it was a fluke. Thankfully I’d saved that Lactation Cookie post recipe because that one was golden! Soooo fast forward 15 months of inaction on my part for checking on here because… well, life… and I find that it was a glitch in some plugin that I enabled. I don’t even know what the plugins do that I chose back in 2015 when this whole thing started, to be honest. And as tech savvy as Jeff is, I really didn’t even seek out his help because — again, life.

Here I am. Most of you who read this know me IRL (Preeeeetty sure that wasn’t a “term” back when I left the blog) know what’s been going on in our lives for the most part, because I’m an over-sharer on facebook, so let’s summarize in the most concise way possible. < also, those of you who know me IRL also know I am awful when it comes to being concise> And no joke, I don’t even know how to do a bulleted list, this is how blog-illiterate I am:

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Day 1 of the “3-Day Potty Training” Method (+video!)

Blog Post 12.28.15 1_Day 1 of 3 Day Potty20-30 pairs of Minnie Mouse and Disney’s Frozen underwear. Check. 

Moist (FLUSHABLE) wipes for post-potty bottom cleaning. Check. 

Potty chair AND mini potty seat. Check. (chair for the car, mini seat for the house)

Rewards chart for stickers as well as mini chocolate candies for going in the potty. Check. 

Fluids fluids fluids. Check. 

Fibrous foods (pears, other fruit, veggies, beans, brown rice). Check. (I am not condoning Metamucil or other like-supplements for your child)

Plan to stay indoors and at home for three consecutive days. Check. 

Crossing your fingers that your toddler will pee her entire bladder’s worth in the tub tonight so she doesn’t pee in the bed. Desperate check. Check check check. Please please please (yeah right, wishful thinking)

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Baby, You Makin Me Sick ~ All About Morning Sickness

Blog Post Morning SicknessFunny term, “Morning Sickness.” As if it really only ever happens in the mornings. Wouldn’t that be nice?

Pretty much every piece of literature that I’ve read out there warns women that “Morning Sickness” (aka NVP; Nausea and Vomiting during Pregnancy) peaks somewhere in the first trimester (around week 8-10) and usually ends around the 3rd to 5th month of pregnancy (only about half of women with NVP feel relief by the end of the 3rd month, actually. Ninety-percent of women finally felt relief by 22 weeks’ pregnancy!) <— that was me, no relief until week 21! 

If you never got morning sickness, consider yourself really lucky. (Kinda like those women who lost the baby weight quickly. It’s probably best not to brag about these enviable details 😆 ). About 75-80% of pregnant women experience morning sickness in some way, shape, or form.

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#SummerofDad 13: Coming in Loud and Clear

Rrrraaaaaaawwwwwwrrrr! (Photo credit: Julie Miesionczek)

Rrrraaaaaaawwwwwwrrrr! (Photo credit: Julie Miesionczek)

Week 13 finds us in Seattle, staying amongst family and long-time friends, at the tail end of our summer-long trek. We’re here for another couple of days, enjoying the Pacific Northwest’s amazing sunny, cool summer. For touring, we’ve been to Discovery Park, Pike Place Market, the Chihuly Art Museum and the Central branch of the Seattle Public Library—all of which are great (except that Pike Place Market, which was a bit infested with tourists at the moment, but is probably great on a grey October day).

In the world of Gabe, you don’t have to be his primary parent to know that this is the week that he discovered his voice. And that he can be loud. And soft. But mostly loud. Fun!

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What’s She Doing Wednesday: Some Big News & A Swift Recap

IMG_8969Yeah I know, I skipped a WSDW post and that usually doesn’t happen, because it doesn’t take much energy to write them. But, let me tell you – if you knew what kind of craziness we have been dealing with other the past 4 weeks, you would totally understand. So I’ll tell you –

WE ARE MOVING (BACK) TO LOS ANGELES!

By “(back)” I really mean “I” am moving back, because I’m the only one out of this nuclear family who’s actually lived in CA, and I did for four years. After college, I went to UCLA for my MPH and then went to get my Master’s in Nursing at the University of San Diego, so I lived down there for two years. Never had I ever planned on leaving CA  until I met Jeff. I actually daydreamed of moving back to the DC area, because I had been away from it for so long. But, after relocating back to DC, I wanted to be back.  Continue reading “What’s She Doing Wednesday: Some Big News & A Swift Recap” »